Here’s an update from a new volunteer to SAFE that has us beaming. Diana lives in Bellingham, so volunteering at Safe Harbor is difficult, but she’s making a difference by spending quality time with Dottie. She wrote this morning to tell us how her friendship with this lovely mare is blooming, and we couldn’t be happier for either of them! This is why we are so fond of our companion horses and why we fully believe that horses have so much more to give than just being ridden.
Things are going wonderfully with Dottie. She is an incredibly special horse, and I honestly adore her. I have known and loved many, many horses in my life, and I have owned two very special horses, but I can tell you with absolute certainty that I have never felt such an immediate connection with a horse as I have now with Dottie. I don’t know if its because we have similar obstacles in our lives (specific kinds of anxiety and emotional sensitivities and even the health and gastrointestinal problems!) or if its just her personality or what, but she has become an instant dear friend to me.
She lives a little further away from me than I had initially thought (it takes an hour for me to drive from my home in Bellingham to hers in Arlington) so I sadly can’t see her as often as I would like, which would be every day if I had my way! But I still have found myself making the trek to see her at least twice a week because I simply can’t seem to go more than a couple days at a time without her! Karen at Pacific Moon has been incredibly wonderful. She has told me that I can just come by whenever, and she has allowed me to really make myself at home at her barn. I am so grateful!
I brought my husband to meet Dottie and that was an interesting event because she was certainly nervous about him at first, but she warmed up to him very quickly and became affectionate with him as well. I definitely see evidence of her former abuse when there are other people around, but she is so quick to turn that around and love on everyone. She is a sensitive horse but so incredibly kind and willing to love. I feel such a kinship with her!
I am head over heels for Dottie and badly wish I was in a position to adopt. The problem of course is that we have no place to keep her and can’t quite afford a boarding fee. All I can say is that I hope this situation will change.
But I wanted to thank you both for giving me this amazing opportunity to get to know her and work with her. We have fun! We’re currently working on going on walks outside of her pasture. She’s definitely not used to leaving the confines of her space and it makes her a little excited to say the least! But mostly we just hang out and have quiet, sweet time together. 🙂
I attached a few photos so you can see what you already know–what a beautiful and sweet heart she has!
Oh Diana, what a heartwarming story to read! Thank you for sharing it with us, and your time with Dottie.
Diana,
We live in Bellingham and have a 40-acre farm near Everson with lovely pastures and extensive trails. We’re looking for a companion horse for the 16-hand Paint gelding we plan to move to the farm (he’s at Kelly Park Stables currently). Do you think Dottie will get along well with a large gelding? If we were to adopt Dottie, you’d be very welcome to visit her anytime you wanted.
Erika
Did Erika & Diana connect???
This looks like a win/win/win situation if Doty can handle hanging out with Erika’s gelding.
Erika, I am SO sorry that I never saw this comment of yours! I realize now it has been a very long time since you left that comment (and I’m not even sure if you’ll see my reply) but I truly hope that if this was a path you were considering then you were able to connect with someone at SAFE to inquire about Dottie. I certainly think there is a good potential that Dottie could get along with your gelding. She currently is actually sharing a pasture with a large gelding who she is doing quite well with. I wish you all the best, and again, I apologize for not ever seeing your inquiry until now!